Our coaching team at Clear Horizon Coaching is fortunate to work with many extraordinary women, encourage them to them challenge their thinking and fast track their careers.
It's also lovely to receive testimonials! Here are some words from Katherine Brandon, from English Australia, who I coached in 2011:
“Rebecca Wells of Clear Horizon Coaching has provided invaluable support over the few months that she has been coaching me. We always worked towards clear goals that related to my direct needs, but Rebecca was flexible enough to address other issues that arose. She is a great listener and has a wonderful range of strategies and approaches that she applied to my different needs, and the detailed written records of our sessions continue to be extremely useful.
Rebecca has really helped me to focus, to be more organised and to have more courage and confidence in my skills.
I work as part of a small team and all have commented on how much calmer I was recently when organising our annual conference! I’ve been able to share some of the strategies I’ve learnt in my coaching sessions with the team and this has helped all of us with our strategic planning and our services to our members.
Rebecca is perceptive, systematic, extremely knowledgeable and has the highest professional standards. I cannot recommend her highly enough and I am hoping to continue working with her in the future.”
Thank you Katherine for enabling us to publish your testimonial.
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Thursday, November 24, 2011
Tuesday, November 22, 2011
Just because you can do something doesn't necessarily mean you should do it.
Let me explain. We all have strengths. These are skills that are innate - you were born with natural strengths. Often they are so much a part of who you are, you don't even see them as strengths! But they are!
There will be strengths that you have that you really, really enjoy utilising.
- Maybe you get a real kick out of mediating other people to get an outcome?
- Or you're so organised you can't wait to get back to your desk to tidy it up again?
You should be aware of strengths like these and make it your mission to use them every single day a) because it makes you happy and b)because these strengths come naturally to you.
There is no point however in utilising strengths, however easy they come to you, if you don't enjoy them.
- paint the wall that needs painting
- write my own marketing copy
- do my own book keeping
...but why would I when I don't enjoy doing any of those things?
Have a think about the tasks on your to-do list. Yes you might be able to complete them all but in doing so, are you playing to your absolute strengths... and most importantly, the strengths you enjoy spending time with?
Tuesday, November 15, 2011
Spending much of my time coaching all of my fabulous clients - you know who you are! - it's been an eye-opening 5 days, being on the receiving end of a training myself (by the awesome Ben Harvey, of Authentic Education... that's his picture above!).
With only 11 days to go until my baby's due date, I was thrilled not to have gone into labour early whilst on the course - phew! - could do without my waters breaking anywhere other than in the comfort of my own home!
I've learnt a pile of stuff though, which no doubt I'll be sharing with you all over time. But being on the receiving end of coaching/training always reminds me of how my own clients must feel working with me. Always valuable! :)
Here are some of my own learnings that I'd love to share:
1. When setting actions for yourself stay focused. Set 1 action if possible. If you absolutely must take on more, 3 actions at any one time should be your absolute limit. Any more and you'll overwhelm yourself resulting in inertia ... and no results.
2. Take action now, however small. You may want to have 'everything right' before you'll venture out and take action. This used to be my absolute achilles heel! However, taking immediate action is the way to go if you want to maintain focus, build confidence that you can achieve your result and start building momentum.
3. You do nothing without making a decision first. So if you're stalling to take action on a particular goal, ask yourself what decision you have yet to make.
There you go - three nuggets! And more to come!
Friday, November 11, 2011
I realised today that life satisfaction is actually pretty simple. To be happy and to feel fulfilled all you need is to know what will make you happy and fulfilled... and then take every action under the sun to see those things happen.
To know what you want, you just need a vision. A big picture.
So consider what your life will look like in 12 months time...
- What's different about that picture versus today?
- What outcomes have you achieved?
- What is new or different about you?
With that clarity of your vision and what you want then you can decide on monthly (or more regular) actions to make that vision a reality.
But you do need action too - remember that!
We all know how quickly time flies - before you know it, it WILL be November 2012... and you don't want to be in the same position then as you are now, do you?
What will your life look like in 12 months time?
Being eight and a half months pregnant it's probably not advisable to be doing much more than putting your feet up and enjoying a tall glass of iced tea. As it is, I signed up to do a 5 day training a couple of months ago instead. Well I figured it would be easier than doing the course in 2012 whilst breastfeeding! :)
So here I am and already absolutely loving it.
There are so many nuggets I am learning and would love to share some with you. The training has more of a business building focus but much of the approach applies to us all.
My first nugget is this: approach everything you do with an UNTIL mentality.
Most tasks we approach are tackled with 'when...' or 'if...' mindsets which quite frankly, will never do.
When you decide you'll take action UNTIL you get the outcome you're after, you're always destined to be successful.
Apply persistence to all that you do and see how much more you can achieve!
Where and when have you acted UNTIL? I'd love to hear about your successes!